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Not Alone by DestinyBlue Not Alone by DestinyBlue
The butterfly flies into thunderstorms just to feel something. The girl cut herself so that she might stop the feelings. A chance meting of two similar souls, both bearing scars.

They survey each other; and realise, they are not alone.

Mm, a very personal drawing for me... I want to give a butterfly. Have you heard of the Butterfly Project? It's an initiative intended to help stop self harm.

Butterfly Project rules:
1. When you feel like you want to cut, take a marker or pen and draw a butterfly wherever the self-harm occurs. 
2. Name the butterfly after a loved one, or someone that really wants you to get better. 
3. NO scrubbing the butterfly off.
4. If you cut before the butterfly is gone, it dies. If you don't cut, it lives.
5. Another person may draw them on you. These butterflies are extra special. Take good care of them.
6. Even if you don’t cut, feel free to draw a butterfly anyway, to show your support. 

I didn't hear about this project till after I was out of my personal crisis, but I really like the idea, supporting yourself or/and friends though tough times. But I don't think its perfect. See number 4? Your butterfly dies if you cut. When I was at my worst point I know I couldn't look after myself let alone a butterfly, real or not. 
So I drew this, to give a butterfly, her name is Hope, she wont die when you cut her, because she's been through it already. She is just there for you, on your skin, a reminder that you are not alone. I wish could draw Hope on every person who needs her; if this is you, please pick up a pen and draw her onto you from me. She is a big raggedy, far from perfect, but beautiful in her uniqueness, and kind in her heart, she doesn't judge you, she is just there with you, to remind you that however bad you feel there are others like you, and people who love you.



To feel so bad that you hurt yourself to feel better. It's terribly twisted logic and a horrible thing to experience... The most common form of self harm is actually alcohol and drug abuse.
People do all sorts of things to cope. That's what self harm is, trying to cope. 
I urge anyone going through this to try and find other coping mechanisms, ones that don't cause harm.. Hurting yourself makes you feel better for a moment, but the right help can make the rest of your life feel better. See a doctor, see a councillor, therapist, talk to someone, The Samaritan are always on the end of the phone. There is hope, I know, which is why I give Hope. I wish I could do more, but every person must face their own demons, I'm just letting them know they don't have to do it alone.

What I am doing is donating 10% of the profit of each print of this sold to the Samaritans, a worldwide charity who provide emotional support to people in distress. 
Find my web shop here: www.storenvy.com/DestinyBlue

What can you do? Draw Hope. Share your story; and read others stories, and talk. Lets not keep this in the shadows. Share this picture if you want to get this message out! 



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CreepyFireCat 6 hours ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
for anyone who this might help:


i used to self-harm, but ive stopped a bit more than a month ago, because i knew how it wasn't getting me anywhere and how i was sure of how it wasn't a good thing, it made me feel better, but in the end it simplily made me hate myself even more. so one day, i dragged that blade for the last time.
two weeks later i was having an anxiety attack because i needed to do it, but i had promissed my best friend that i would stop with it. and because of Hope; things might seem terrible now, but you have to believe that they will get better. i cant promise that things will always be okay, but i can promise that in the end it will all be alright! (:

ps: if you need to talk, you can note me! <33
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copper-wolf14 Apr 8, 2014  New member
I just love this, so much...
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RoguetheScarredAngel Apr 4, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
Is there anything else you can tell me about the butterfly project? I'm running a group focused on ending self harm and depression, and I would like to share as much as I can with the group
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Bairdsgirl11797 Apr 2, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Very beautiful, and deeply personal. :)
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BleachForever121 Apr 2, 2014  Student General Artist
Thank you Destiny Blue for today I found out one of my friends were harming herself. It's something I'd never imagined of her to do but because of your artwork and spreading the word of the butterfly project I was able to give my friend some hope.
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:iconcwest212:
Beautiful & powerful! I also love the blue version of this piece. How did you switch out the colors so flawlessly in photoshop??
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GoldenheartMEW Mar 29, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
That is soo sweet. The depth and emotion in these drawings are amazingly inspiring!
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i love it!!!!! ^_^
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:iconhope1012:
This is so gorgeous. <3
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ChrishChrish Mar 27, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
You're pieces, especially this one, I always feel emotional about. I love your work and how deep your pieces can be.
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